As people, we do a lot of talking. Talking about family, friends, happy moments, and the sad ones. However, we do not talk about service as much. We discuss it as far as how was it, and you get a vague answer of “cool or good I guess” and those answers are always acceptable. But we never ask people to go into depth talking about how the service made them feel or what they are thinking. Like the article, we read, it basically said we do not talk about service, because then we have to discuss how imperfect our nation is. We as people hate to see people doing bad, at least those with empathy for people in those situations.
We must reflect when we do a service for people, because when you say your thoughts out loud you get a better understanding of them. Also, when you keep your thoughts to yourself, you are not giving yourself the benefit to grow. You simply just keep it in your brain and in the next moment it is gone. When discussing things aloud, you may come across questions you never thought about or you may come across someone who has the same conclusion you do. You get to build yourself into a better and knowledgeable person. You also get to hopefully push it forward. Whatever you personally learn and gain from your experience you can give that to someone else. When you become knowledgeable on an issue that our nation has, you can be a key to help change it. You become an advocate for the things you know. It is OK to know the bad parts of someone’s life. Because we learn someone’s situation does not make that person who they are. When using reflection in service learning, we are creating fighters for that cause or change in general. People typically become passionate when they find out how bad things are for other people. We are a nation of stories and issues. We cannot solve everything but we can sure try to make a positive impact wherever we are and reflecting can be that first step.
Talking leads to planning, planning leads to impact, impact leads to giving someone a better life. Even if we are just doing the smallest or the biggest of things, changing someones life is always the end result. Allowing our privilege to over spill onto a person in need is always an impactful thing on not just one person, but you too.